Clear and Calm: Manifesting Better Communication
Effective communication is the cornerstone of every relationship and yet, how many of you have felt unheard, misunderstood, or unable to voice your feelings without getting into an argument? Learning how to speak your truth and, most importantly, how to listen and truly understand, are essential skills and so here are my top tips for manifesting better communication for deeper connection.
1/ Pay Attention to the Living Room
In any home, the living room is the place where people will sit and relax together and as such, it’s where the majority of conversations will happen. To maintain a positive energy flow, it’s best to decorate with orange and peach. These Diamond Quantum Colors represent celebration and joy and, as such, you’ll find that you and your partner or family members will experience more joyful, productive, and open conversations. Even adding a few peach-colored cushions on your couch will have a noticeable effect! If you’re having trouble seeing eye-to-eye with your family or you feel yourself being extra judgmental, add saffron yellow-colored accessories (the Diamond Quantum Color representing compassion) to the living room instead.
Similarly, ensure that the living room couches and chairs are arranged in Power Position so that no one has their back to the door, as this can make people feel defensive. Instead, ensure that people have a clear view of the door when they sit down whilst still being able to face each other as they talk as this will encourage clear and open communication.
2/ Set Vibrational Intentions Before Speaking
Words carry frequency and so before entering a conversation, especially a difficult one, take the time to center your energy. Take a few deep breaths and visualize a citrus green light (the Diamond Quantum Color for honesty) surrounding you and the person you’re about to speak with.
Then, ask yourself: “What do I truly want to create in this exchange?” When your intention is honest and heart-based, you help to make the communication more productive.
3/ Use Heart-Centered Language
In order to avoid descending into petty arguments or cheap jabs, try replacing reactive phrases with mindful ones:
Instead of “You never listen to me,” try “I feel unheard when this happens.”
Instead of “Why can’t you understand?” say “Can we take a moment to understand each other better?”
These subtle shifts reduce defensiveness and invite openness, a win-win when it comes to remaining level-headed!
4/ Cleanse Your Communication Energy Daily
Just as you wouldn’t leave your home cluttered, don’t let unresolved energies linger in your aura. At the end of each day, take a moment to reflect: “Were my words aligned with my soul’s purpose today?” If there’s tension, forgive yourself and others. Send light to any unresolved conversations and ask for divine support in healing them.
With Love and Joy,
Dame Marie Diamond
Feng Shui Master and Best-selling Author
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